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Fighting for Money After Divorce Might Not Always Be a Good Idea

Money is the most common issue that leads to post-divorce fights between former spouses. If you are owed child support or alimony, it is absolutely understandable to want to take your fight to the court and exercise your right to what is owed to you.

However, there are a few circumstances in which fighting for your money might not actually be in your best interests. Here are some examples:

  • It will cost you more than you would receive: There are some circumstances in which the legal battle you would have to go through could cost you more than what you would actually get. This is unfair, but it’s reality. In some cases, it just doesn’t pay to go after the money owed to you.
  • Your ex-spouse doesn’t have the money: In some circumstances, a former spouse who owes child support or alimony legitimately might not be financially able to pay those bills. In a situation such as this, finding the appropriate time to bring the action to the court would likely be the most important consideration.
  • Fighting for the money is damaging your life and your children: Having to constantly go through courtroom battles can take a lot out of you, your pocketbook and your children. The more conflict that exists in your relationship, the harder it can be to navigate and the greater effect it can have on your life.

For more information on the steps you can take to enforce child support or alimony agreements, work with an experienced Minnesota divorce lawyer at Appelhof, Pfeifer & Hart, P.A.

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