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When parents divorce, they generally both retain parental rights absent extenuating circumstances. However, some parents fear their ex will challenge them in court and want to make sure that their parental rights are preserved.
The best way to protect your parental rights is to work with an experienced divorce and child custody attorney—but in the meantime, here are some proactive steps you can take:
- Talk to your spouse: If your spouse is receptive, talk to them about what they envision once one of you moves out. If you can agree on a temporary visitation schedule, so much the better.
- Stay involved in your child’s life: Divorce is stressful on everyone, including children. However, it’s important that you prioritize them throughout the process. Attend their school events, take them out for one-on-one time and keep up your household routines.
- Consider your child’s feelings: Do not vent to your child about the divorce or try to bias them against their other parent. Instead, focus on being a safe person for them to talk to and spend time with. Not only will this ease their experience, but many courts take a child’s preference into account when making custody determinations.
- Document any interference: If your ex tries to interfere with your time with your children, document it. Save any emails, texts or voicemails which demonstrate their interference, and write down any incidents as soon as they happen, with the time, date and a brief factual description.
- Document your contributions: Parents who take an active, positive role in their child’s life are more likely to receive favorable custody outcomes. Document your relationship with your child, such as caretaking duties and regular recreational activities. If your parental rights are challenged, this will demonstrate that you share the childrearing duties—as well as the fun parts.
- Imagine your ideal parenting arrangement: Finally, consider which reasonable outcomes you’d prefer. For instance, how often will each parent see the child? How will you divide holidays, school breaks and vacations?
When you need help negotiating custody arrangements, the compassionate custody lawyers at Appelhof, Pfeifer & Hart, P.A. in St. Paul, MN can help. Call today to get started.
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