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Tips for Good Communication with Your Divorce Attorney

During your divorce process, chances are you are going to have a lot of questions and concerns that come up at various times. It is helpful to have a good relationship with your divorce attorney so that you can get the answers and feedback you need.

The following are some tips for communicating with your divorce lawyer during your case:

  • Write down questions and issues as they come to you: Keep in mind that you will be charged by your lawyer for his or her time. Frequent calls could result in a higher bill from your attorney. Instead, build up a list of questions and issues so you can get them answered at once rather than calling or emailing every time you have a single small question.
  • Follow up if you don’t get a response: Your case is important, and you deserve a response to your questions. Yes, the attorney is likely very busy and has other clients, but they have a responsibility to you to represent you as well as possible. Again, you shouldn’t send emails or make phone calls every single day, but if you do place a call or send an email and don’t hear back in a timely manner, feel free to follow up. A good attorney will appreciate a reminder.
  • Discuss any problems or concerns you have: If you have any problems or issues with the way your case is being handled, don’t be shy — discuss them with your attorney as they arise. Your attorney cannot know there is a problem or that you are uncomfortable with something unless you speak up about it.
  • Meet in person: Having some face-to-face time is critical for the success of your case. This is the best way for you to establish a rapport and a good working relationship that will carry you through the divorce.

To get the guidance and advice you need throughout the divorce process, meet with an experienced Minnesota family law attorney at Appelhof, Pfeifer & Hart, P.A.

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