Divorcing a spouse is difficult, even under the most amicable circumstances. Planning for your divorce ahead of time can take some of the stress out of the process.
Here are some tips to help you get ready to initiate your divorce:
- Understand your legal options:Many people believe that divorce can only be accomplished by going to public court hearings. That is an option, but mediation and arbitration can be less adversarial experiences. They encourage the parties to come to an agreement before filing in court, so the actual legal process is much simpler.
- Organize your finances:Organizing your finances ahead of time will help you in two major ways. First, you’ll be better prepared for the financial disclosures. Second, you’ll have a good overall understanding of your budget, and which assets are likely to be considered marital property. You should also wrap up any major purchases before you file, since that can cause issues after you’re separated. Avoid the temptation to hide assets, however. Judges do not look favorably upon spouses who hide assets, and may levy fines or other penalties for doing so.
- Make goals for the future:Next, start thinking about what your post-separation and divorce life will look like. What is your current budget, and what will your budget look like when you’re on your own? Where will you live? What’s your ideal custody and visitation scenario, and where are you willing to compromise? Which assets are crucial to you, and which would you be willing to sacrifice, if necessary?
- Talk to an experienced attorney:Finally, research and consult with experienced divorce attorneys. While you can learn plenty about the divorce process online or from loved ones, there’s no substitute for legal counsel. A good lawyer will explain your options and the potential consequences of each choice, then advocate for your needs.
The seasoned divorce lawyers at Appelhof, Pfeifer & Hart, P.A. in St. Paul, MN are standing by to help. Call today for a consultation.