Divorce can pose an emotionally turbulent phase of your life no matter when it happens. For people who go through a divorce in their 20s, there might be feelings or shame or embarrassment, or a sense that your future is already compromised.
However, there are many people that get divorced while in their 20s and go on to adjust to their new life just fine, and thrive afterwards. Here are a few tips to help you get through this rough patch.
- Focus on finances: People in their 20s are already likely to have some financial challenges just because they are likely to have student loans and are not yet established in their careers. When you factor in divorce, this can make those challenges even more severe. Focus on rebuilding your credit and eliminating debt.
- Rely on your support system: It is common for people to feel like they’ve failed after they go through a divorce, especially if they’re still in their 20s and the marriage was a short one. It is okay to grieve and to take some time to yourself. Find your support system and lean on your friends and family as you recover. Consider seeking the services of a counselor or therapist. Don’t put any pressure on yourself to “bounce back” quickly.
- Think about your future: There’s still so much life ahead of you. The positive of being a young divorcee is that you didn’t spend a large chunk of your life in a bad marriage. You can spend some time reflecting, and learn about yourself and what you truly want. Then you can focus on moving forward into the future.
These are just a few examples of some of the ways you can move forward from a divorce you went through in your 20s. For more tips and information, contact an experienced Minnesota divorce lawyer at Appelhof, Pfeifer & Hart, P.A.